More intelligence or more emotion?

 Where is the love if conscious mental processes should supercede emotions in any relationship? This is where people get it wrong in dealing with human behaviours.

Those who apply more intelligence than emotions in dealing with you have selectively pinpointed their interests and are shrewd in pursuit of them, deferring reactions to maltreatments or any annoying action from anybody until their intentions are met.

Those who apply more emotions than intelligence are more real. They get angry easily because emotions push them to register their displeasure at a slight provocation. They are easily misunderstood because they have no place to hide anger. They are the most hated, their mood swing rise and fall like a Naira against Dollar. They love for real, and always trying to keep to their words. Unfortunately, this their real intentions and love are always misunderstood and paid back with evil.

Those who say, "throw away emotions" are actually not preaching genuine love. Where is the love without emotions? When we all throw away emotions, deception and sycophancy becomes the order, empathy dies.

emotional intelligence is good but when intelligence is greater than emotion, one person is cheating or deceiving the other party in one way or the other. Instead, keep them on balance. 

CIN